LIARS FOR LIFE--THE STORY OF TWO SOCIOPATHS
My Personal View of Joran's Interview
By Meri U., Aruban Boycott Blogger
Between the years of 1960 and 1968 I was married to a sociopath. He wasn't as infamous as Ted Bundy or Scott Peterson but he was a serial offender and it was all over the newspapers in the city in which I lived.
I was curious as to what made a person like this tick since it seemed as if I was the last to know about his offenses and although I realized later on that I had seen many of the signs of his disorder, I had also missed many.
I was young and inexperienced and when the doctor at the first prison/hospital (Atascadero State Hospital) he was sent to, sat me down to tell me about my ex-husband's diagnosis I was stunned. How could I have lived with this type of person and not known how messed up he really was? Well, it was easy once you understand what goes into the make-up of an anti-social personality because they have the uncanny ability to blend into their circumstances.
The following link is a simple layman's explanation of what a sociopathic personality consists of:
I watched Joran van der Sloot last night and it literally made me feel sick. I could sit here and count the inconsistencies in what he said and I could compare him in many ways to the classic sociopath but I don't have the heart for it today. I can only say that his parents and his lawyers should be ashamed of themselves for allowing him to go on that television show and speak.
Joran van der Sloot incriminated himself so many times that I lost count. If the police on Aruba do not bring him in for re-questioning we will know once and for all that Joran is being protected and that this case is a farce. He made claims that I doubt the Aruban police have recorded in any statement from Joran while he was in custody. He made accusations against THEM that they have denied and should deal with.I believe that Joran van der Sloot was lying throughout his interview and tha
t he will continue to lie because he is guilty...guilty of something. Whatever happened to Natalee Holloway, Joran knows what. why and where she is.
t he will continue to lie because he is guilty...guilty of something. Whatever happened to Natalee Holloway, Joran knows what. why and where she is.Joran will not reveal that information because he is fighting for his own life and he will do anything in order to remain free, People like Joran don't do well in confinement.
In closing, I can only say that if his interview had the effect on me that it did (I couldn't sleep all night, couldn't eat this morning, had an upset stomach), then what effect must it have had on Natalee's parents?
The only thing that brings me comfort is the strength and courage that those parents have shown and the hope that they will find some answers in what Joran said and didn't say. They know their daughter and they know what her friends said about that night. They know when Joran is lying. I am hoping that the bold display of Joran's remorseless behavior and outright lies will embolden them further and allow them to continue fighting for their daughter.
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Sociopaths are antisocial, emotionless and cold-blooded, merciless forever liars. Very often they are cruel murderers, they dispose the bodies by dismembering and store the body parts in barrels and other containners for revisits and self-gratifications. Sociopaths are cowardly predators preying on gentle women and children. If a woman can strongly beat their heads off with a duster, they will backoff quickly. Joran fits the sociopath pattern well indeed by the sheer amount and size of his lies and slanders leveled against the poor victim missing girl Natalee. He says it's all Natalee's fault by his dehumanizing of her. When he got rejected by Natalee on his wanton sex demands, and he got mad and killed Natalee driven by his sex rage. Joran blamed Natalee for not bringing the condoms with her in her purse. Joran expects women should provide condoms for men to have sex with, that's what he meant "No Condom, No Sex" in his ABC Primetime interview.
Clearly I want to say I have never given a true opinion of what I think happen that night But here is my stab at it..
The Night Of May 29th I believe Joran VanDer Sloot snuck out of the house (Again) He went to the casinoto play cards.. The group Of Mb girls arrived followed by Natalee, clearly by the video you can see that there is very little or no interaction between Joran and Natalee .As he had stated he was interested in one of her friends not Natalee. It was earlier stated that the girls mentioned going to Carlos and Charlies and Joran stated that Sunday nights were dead there ( No Pun Intended ) After a few hours of playing card the girls exited the casino and went to Carlos and Charlies.. As Joran stated in his interview he then called Deepak and Satish and asked to be picked up so they could go to The Bar, There the girls having fun and drinking and dancing come upon Joran again. Natalee at that point may have approached Joran and may well have asked him to do a Jelly Shot ( to me niether here nor there) ( my thought on Natalee and I mean In no way to put her down or demean her in any way) I truly believe Natalee was smart/ intelligent , But I also believe her to be nieve and somewhat a push over quiet type and non aggressive verbally or physically, I also believe she was brought up in a very christian like manner and was not what I would consider worldly / No street smarts all book smarts).
I think the girl that Joran was interested in was the Opposite probably more voicestress spoke her mind a bit more
This is where I think Joran took notice in Natalee she was not aggressive like he claims she was But he saw her as the mouse he could over power because she came across as more shy/ non aggressive in personality.
He proceeded to buy her a shot of 151 which as much of us may know would knock out a horse if your not a drinker or use to alcohol... (whether drugged I cant speculate) but from his discription of her, I would bet yes)
I think Joran suggested the drive back to hotel and Natalee freely went , I am sure at this point she is probably having fun and yes a drive might be nice.. By the time they get to the car and and start driving the alcohol maybe drugs are hitting her.. They see her friends who insist she get out of the car and she refuses thinking nothing is wrong we are just going for a drive.
I think the boy did drive by Jorans house and maybe stopped but didn’t go in (touring Blah Blah this is where I live)
At this point Joran is kissing Natalee in the back of the car and I am sure getting pretty hot and heavy.They proceed to drive to the beach and park with all three boys. They all get out of the car heading to the beach, I believe then what ever is in Natalee's system ha taken full effect and she is quite intoxicated and Joran proceeded to take sexual advantage of her , I also believe both the brother
had there way with her also as she is coming in and out of congconciousness I belive that Natalee is struggling and trying to resist and one or the other guys are probably holding her down while the other has his way with her..
Now at this point I think that Natalee was choked or sufficated and being uncongconious and this time.
I believe the boys panicked and decided to bury her. I think the boys got spooks because while out on that lonely
beach they were not alone they may have been for a short time but someone arrived( explaining the witness call that the person couldn’t live with what they saw and had to tell the truth) and the boys scrambled
(Joran Leaving his shoes there) I think the boys drove to the pond area where they were seen parks and we trying to decide what to do , They left that area and took Joran home and went home theirselves, Where deepak went online and Satish may have went to bed..Now I think Joran through all the confusion realises he doesn’t have his shoes and wakes his dad and tells his dad something bad happen( I think at first daddy says don’t involve me Mr Judge in training) I think Joran goes back to Beach but is unable to locate where he was after all it is dark..
So he heads back home walking But calls Deepak for a ride and the boys say No way.. Joran calls daddy and daddy
come and gets him..Getting him back home around 4 am..
Beth Shows on the island and find Joran was with Natalee and She is taken to his home by a islander and a few Police Officer and again Joran isnt home ( he snuck out again ) Finally meeting up around 3 am Beth Confronts Joran asking him where her daughter is and of course he lies and tells her I dropped her off at the Hotel.
Joran has Deepak and Satish over and Daddy Gives them FULL legal instructions ( no body No case)
He proceeds to tell them not to talk on cell phones or computers and to get there stories straight...
After the boys are arrested and under continious questioning they start actually telling the story in half truth
then recanting, they start pointing fingers and one another and as well all know ( something bad happen)
In the Holloway lawsuit it states Joran was a predator amongst other things..
John Kelly stated that the alligation in the lawsuit came directly from there own statement that he reviewed
in Aruba.( Clearly the Van Der Sloots and Joran have dehumanized Natalee in all of their interviews)
they cant even refere to her as Natalee but as the girl..
well I don’t know if any of this makes sense but this is Just My Opinion and solely My opinion
the original post on this thread about sociopathic behavior is right on describing Joran and those predators like him. Thanks for sharing this, Meri U.
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